Who Can You Trust

Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. Proverbs 27:5‭-‬6 NIV

It's interesting that this version talks about hiw an enemy multiplies kisses as though kisses were a bad thing. But that's just it. The kisses are just enough to keep you hooked. Then when your guard is down, they strike. This is often the case with abusers. They hide behind their supposed love. You cant trust them as far as you can throw them. They prey on the weak  and insecure.

But true friends, and if you have at least one count yourself among a very small percentage, can be counted on to tell you the truth even if it's not what you want to hear. They say it in love because they want what's best for you and dont want to see you struggle.

The hard part is knowing the difference. Knowing when you can be free to speak your mind and when to not reveal too much because it will be used against you. This is where God's discernment is needed. Spend time in prayer and seek his wisdom.